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Mariah
March 5th, 2003, 10:45 AM
To all the members of the LongHair Community,

I just wanted to post a note to say thank you...I have participated in many forums, and usually end up leaving after a couple of months because I dislike all the catty, mean-spirited, know-it-all attitudes people often display in forums.

I have found this to be one of the most enjoyable forums I have ever participated in -- everyone here is so polite and caring, and even on "hot topic" issues (such as cones vs. no cones) no one is impolite, or makes anyone else feel as if their opinion is useless or irrelevant, or that someone else is stupid for having a different opinion. For the few months I have been on this forum, we have discussed war, love, pet peeves, and a myriad of hair related issues, and not once did I ever feel threatened or defensive or feel my blood pressure start to boil because people were being cruel in their posts.

I just wanted to say thank you!! You are a wonderful bunch of people, and I enjoy myself everytime I visit these boards!!

Mariah

zoya_
March 5th, 2003, 10:47 AM
DITTO.

Pixna
March 5th, 2003, 10:52 AM
What a sweet post, Mariah! :heart: We've had a few ups and downs, but I agree that we are among the most supportive sites around -- a true community, despite living in myriad places throughout North America and around the world. We owe a lot to Steph (our fearless and rather pregnant leader) and our wonderful moderators, too, who have selflessly donated their time and energy to make this wonderful place a cozy home for all of us.

Okay, so where's the group hug emoticon?? ;)

:heart: :heart: :heart:

Avrilon
March 5th, 2003, 10:55 AM
I'm glad you said it 'cause that's the way I feel too. :heart:

Kao
March 5th, 2003, 10:56 AM
I agree! I've left a few bboards on the Net recently, simply because the general, rather grouchy tone made me feel incredibly uncomfortable.

It's amusing my boyfriend, because I keep gushing about how /nice/ everyone is on here!

CeliaB
March 5th, 2003, 10:58 AM
It's like -- A Fellowship of the Long Hairs...and the Wanna-be Long Hairs! It's the most enjoyable part of my day to come here! :D

QueenHarpy
March 5th, 2003, 11:18 AM
Very eloquently stated Mariah :) I'm an incurable lurker who usually doesn't post to the boards I read because I'm overly sensitive and for the exact same reasons you stated in your post (catty-ness, etc.). Everyone here should pat themselves on the back for helping to create what has to be one of the kindest forums on the internet :heart: Not to mention all of the knowledge shared here... it's priceless, really 8)

Dulci
March 5th, 2003, 11:21 AM
I totally agree! I can relax on this board more than on any other I visit.

heehee, look at the emoticon I found at emoticons4u (love that site, thanks for the link Steph!)

http://e4u.consoleradar.com/fam/fam28.gif

Carolyn
March 5th, 2003, 11:27 AM
Ditto for me too. I love spending time here with all my "hair buds". And ya know what I think is so cool? There isn't anyone I would be afraid to meet in real life.R I feel like we are all friends. Wouldn't it be great if we could all get together? Lunch at Red Lobster next Saturday? :D

Arcticpixie
March 5th, 2003, 11:41 AM
Mariah you said it exactly and perfectly! This board is the only board I participate in because of that. In RL I have a few very carefully chosen friends for that same reason. But I truly enjoy EVERYONES company here!

Thank you for putting the words out there that we all feel inside.

Elle
March 5th, 2003, 11:41 AM
Very eloquently stated Mariah :) I'm an incurable lurker who usually doesn't post to the boards I read because I'm overly sensitive and for the exact same reasons you stated in your post (catty-ness, etc.). Everyone here should pat themselves on the back for helping to create what has to be one of the kindest forums on the internet :heart: Not to mention all of the knowledge shared here... it's priceless, really 8)

I could've wrote your post myself, Queeny... :) These are exactly my reasons why I haven't been active on any boards, but you don't find that here.

The people here are warm and caring.. :)

Elle

Hollie
March 5th, 2003, 11:50 AM
That is very sweet! :) You're correct, too. I've never seen a group of people like this one!!

gabiwags
March 5th, 2003, 12:11 PM
Thank you and thank yourself as a wonderful participating member Mariah

I totally agree. Glicks happen but they are rare and usually resolved pretty quickly.

A few of us had some brainfarts lately, but we took a community digel and I think everyone is feeling all better now.

PS - if I am being presumptious pls kick our mutual behinds and let me know :DD ...g

Hollie
March 5th, 2003, 12:20 PM
PS - if I am being presumptious pls kick our mutual behinds and let me know ...g

Always presumptuous, but I like that. Can I kick you anyway???? ;) :twisted: :P

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

Stephanie
March 5th, 2003, 12:37 PM
This is such a nice thread! :D Definitely, a HUGE thanks to the mods who keep us (yes, me too LOL) in line. :D

Anne
March 5th, 2003, 12:38 PM
Oh yeah! Group hug, :heart: ;)

Teacherbear
March 5th, 2003, 02:57 PM
I agree, Mariah and Queen Harpy!!! This IS a phenomenal COMMUNITY!! We *have* had a few bumps in the road, but as Gabi wrote, we took a community (cyber) digel and it passed! ;)

Axium
March 5th, 2003, 04:48 PM
Wonderful place to be, and I'm happy each of you is here. :D

charlyee
March 5th, 2003, 04:51 PM
Even though I have not been posting for long I can still feel it.

gabiwags
March 5th, 2003, 05:53 PM
PS - if I am being presumptious pls kick our mutual behinds and let me know ...g

Always presumptuous, but I like that. Can I kick you anyway???? ;) :twisted: :P

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

Not until I find a certain emoticon :twisted: - I noticed one of us can't spell presumptu/ious. Oh, go ahead, if it'll make you feel better - my butt's too big anyway :DD...g

LisaJaney
March 5th, 2003, 06:02 PM
a nice thread. I feel kinda ooshy and sweet and sentimental now. I, too, have long felt that way about this group. And while we have had a coupla squabbles in the two years I've been learning to know (and love) the people here, we do kiss and make up and I am always amazed at the way we CAN talk about things that would bring FLAMES on other forums and we still remain friends. There are people on this forum that I have met personally, have talked to on the phone for hours (true, huh, Skeeter and Ammo and TBear, Tresses and Hols?) and they are as kind as can be. I've never felt that I wanted to MEET anyone from any other places on the net, til I came here. There have been several groups meet, and they are always good experiences. Quality people.

Which brings me to our fearless leader, Steph. (I loved how she was touted as being "rather pregnant". That's priceless! Steph, do you FEEL "rather pregnant"???? bwahahahahaha She probably feels about to POP~) Thank you, Steph, for ALL you do -- I am sure we don't even know HALF the stuff you do for us, and the things we DO know about BOGGLE the imagination -- and for providing a good place for such an addicted bunch of individuals to meet. I know *I* am hopelessly addicted, and suspect the same fate for many of the guys and gals here. How else could we have racked up 6,000 posts in just a few days' time?????

Queen Harpy, I've seen your name on several places in the past few days (I noticed it because I think it's a cute moniker) and wanted to say "I am glad you came out of lurkdom, and feel honored that you chose to do so just for us!"

Have a lovely evening, one and all.
HUGS!

Stephanie
March 5th, 2003, 06:14 PM
Which brings me to our fearless leader, Steph. (I loved how she was touted as being "rather pregnant". That's priceless! Steph, do you FEEL "rather pregnant"???? bwahahahahaha She probably feels about to POP~) Thank you, Steph, for ALL you do -- I am sure we don't even know HALF the stuff you do for us, and the things we DO know about BOGGLE the imagination -- and for providing a good place for such an addicted bunch of individuals to meet. I know *I* am hopelessly addicted, and suspect the same fate for many of the guys and gals here. How else could we have racked up 6,000 posts in just a few days' time?????
Lisa...if only you knew how pregnant I feel (oh, wait...you do don't you LOL). Between Jake being a big lil' bugger (too big to even move now) and my GAS (am I really gonna post this?!) I really AM gonna pop! LOL!!! :oops: Oh, God, I think I'm gonna post that... Ugh. :rolleyes:

I think that one of these days, I'm gonna document exactly what I do in one day. LOL! 99.999% of my day is spent online, while 99.999% of THAT is spent with my face buried in this sites PHP code, mySQL databases, and participating on the board. And ya know what? It's the most relaxing thing I could imagine doing. :D I love it.

Thank you. This whole thread is just so sappy. :D I LOVE IT!!!

Hollie
March 5th, 2003, 06:22 PM
LisaJaney...There are people on this forum that I have met personally, have talked to on the phone for hours (true, huh, Skeeter and Ammo and TBear, Tresses and Hols?)......

Oh, yeah...that Ammo and TB.....MEGA chatterboxes!! How does lil' ole me keep up with them?? :rolleyes: ;) :D ROFL!!!!!!

KT
March 6th, 2003, 12:40 AM
Awwwww :D

I go to bed and everything is normal.

I wake up and find warm fuzzies and group hugs all over the place :) Am I too late, is there a spare arm left over for my hug?

I agree with everything everyone says (how often can you say that LOL!) - this is such a friendly place to be, and whilst we do have our little spats, we always make up, and the things we can discuss without arguing is a tribute to the strength and maturity of this group (and I don't mean age, there are some very mature young people here, perfectly balanced out by Gabi of course ;) <ducking>).

Melusina
March 6th, 2003, 01:57 AM
I couldn't agree more! Most forums rarely last more than a few months with me, but I feel very comfortable here. :)

Selvina
March 6th, 2003, 02:43 AM
You´re right Mariah !
Defenitly the nicest hair community I found on the net !!!
:)

Equestrian
March 6th, 2003, 03:07 AM
It's like -- A Fellowship of the Long Hairs...and the Wanna-be Long Hairs

Yep!!!! :D :) :D :)

LisaJaney
March 6th, 2003, 10:47 AM
LisaJaney...There are people on this forum that I have met personally, have talked to on the phone for hours (true, huh, Skeeter and Ammo and TBear, Tresses and Hols?)......

Oh, yeah...that Ammo and TB.....MEGA chatterboxes!! How does lil' ole me keep up with them?? :rolleyes: ;) :D ROFL!!!!!!

Well, Hols, you left out Skeeter. That little gal can hang in with the best of 'em, and she's got this adorable Southern Belle accent that is SOOO charming. I loved meeting JennaPea (from a distance, but still....) and TBear and Longhair when I vacationed last year. Plan to do THAT again soon!

One of these days, I'll try to meet up with Skeeter, Ammo and Tresses..... my oh my, the husbands would just be lost in all the chatter!

Hollie
March 6th, 2003, 11:02 AM
LisaJaney...There are people on this forum that I have met personally, have talked to on the phone for hours (true, huh, Skeeter and Ammo and TBear, Tresses and Hols?)......

Oh, yeah...that Ammo and TB.....MEGA chatterboxes!! How does lil' ole me keep up with them?? :rolleyes: ;) :D ROFL!!!!!!

Well, Hols, you left out Skeeter. That little gal can hang in with the best of 'em, and she's got this adorable Southern Belle accent that is SOOO charming. I loved meeting JennaPea (from a distance, but still....) and TBear and Longhair when I vacationed last year. Plan to do THAT again soon!

One of these days, I'll try to meet up with Skeeter, Ammo and Tresses..... my oh my, the husbands would just be lost in all the chatter!

Rigty-O.......I was referring to the ones I've talked with via phone. And of course I'm being facetious. I can yap with the best of 'em. ;) :rolleyes:

Poledra
March 6th, 2003, 11:28 AM
I too have often lost interest or been disgusted by some of the stuff that goes on in a typical community online, but this one has been a refreshing change. I chalk it up to the fact that all the wonderful people enjoy growing their hair long :D

I think we all deserve a big pat on the back and a round of applause to the people that keep this site running:

*mad cheering and clapping from invisible crowd* Woohoo!

Pol

gabiwags
March 6th, 2003, 12:52 PM
Awwwww :D

we always make up, and the things we can discuss without arguing is a tribute to the strength and maturity of this group (and I don't mean age, there are some very mature young people here, perfectly balanced out by Gabi of course ;) <ducking>).

:DD - there's one in every crowd, eh?; Hey easy to duck when you're a continent and ocean away ;) ...g

LongRed
March 6th, 2003, 02:26 PM
I have MORE than enjoyed it here with
fun, hair-smart people that are super
fun to chat with!

I can't begin to count all the things I've
learned about long hair and life in general!

What a great place! :)

Chamomile betty
March 8th, 2003, 09:03 AM
I feel the love :heart:

Angel Hugs and Love

QueenHarpy
March 8th, 2003, 07:59 PM
Queen Harpy, I've seen your name on several places in the past few days (I noticed it because I think it's a cute moniker) and wanted to say "I am glad you came out of lurkdom, and feel honored that you chose to do so just for us!"

Sorry I didn't reply sooner LisaJaney! I just now read your post :oops: Thank you for the kind welcome :D I always enjoy reading your posts... you have a wicked sense of humor, which is of course the best kind :twisted:

As for my name, I should probably post this on the "what does your name mean" thread, but I can't take credit for coming up with it. It was so kindly bestowed upon me by my dear SO. Why, you'd think he'd appreciate my efforts to help him improve himself and keep track of all of those things he needs to do ;)

LisaJaney
March 9th, 2003, 01:38 PM
Why is it that they seem to 'miss' the part where we're trying to help them better themselves????? bwahahahaha

Too funny, QH! I think that you oughtta post LOTS; you're a HOOT!!!

Hugs,

Rob Dehlinger
March 9th, 2003, 01:46 PM
Though I sometimes make a fool of myself, all the folks here are very caring and put up with it!

The only challenge I have is that they are causing me to keep increasing my hair goal length! :D



Rob Dehlinger

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