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Dulci
March 15th, 2003, 07:57 PM
I started vomiting violently Tuesday nite, it didn't stop until Wednesday morning. It reminded me of the time I caught a Shigella (a type of dysentery) in Egypt, I was squirting from both ends for HOURS. Totally empty. I stayed in bed all day Wednesday, my stomach was sore but I thought my muscles were hurting from all the dry-heaving. Thursday, I was sore and tender, and started getting feverish, so I had DH take me to the little country hospital Emergency room that night. I had my Doctor Mom type book with me, I told the doctor I thought I had appendicitis.

After an IV, urine test, numerous blood tests and a CAT scan (complete with radioactive enema given by a very cute, nervous Latino boy) old country doctor agreed that I had appendicitis, and he recommended that I get in the ambulance and ride to the big hospital about an hour east because they did laproscopy (please forgive all misspelling in this post), the tiny incision surgery. As it was now about 5 in the am, I agreed. I liked him a lot, as he had a charming stutter and was not intimidated by a woman who diagnosed herself from a book. Apparently a lot of doctors hate this, they even have a little french phrase for it, something like "little woman with many bits of paper."

After a bumpy ride (oh why didn't I take the pain meds offered?) I arrived Friday 6am and was parked in the emergency room, where I discovered that this fine large hospital was a TEACHING hospital. Very funny, just like on TV. I met so many fresh-faced young 'doctors' practicing their bedside manners and poking skills, but to be fair, I met a lot of residents and chiefs too. And of course they had to take their own blood and urine samples...

They decided in the emergency room that I did not have appendicitis, that because my pain was not restricted to the lower right quadrant of my abdomen like in the textbook, but was instead the lower half, and so I was presenting as PID, Pelvic Inflammatory Disease, and they discharged me to OB/GYN to get checked out.

WELL I certainly don't need to get any sort of female checkup this year, they were most thorough. I did not know that they have now invented an ultrasound that they stick up inside you, she showed me that my uterus was fine, both my ovaries and tubes were normal looking, (Yay!) she did not see any sign of inflammation at all. Oh yeah, and I am NOT pregnant either (whew!) :shock: She also said that I did not fit the usual profile for PID, as I am married for 14 years, monogamous, etc. She showed her findings and scans to the Chief OB/GYN and he concurred, they thought I had appendicitis. Back downstairs to the ER.

Ok, it's Friday afternoon, I've been at Big Hospital now for about seven hours, sitting in various uncomfortable wheelchairs, hard chairs, hard gurneys and stirrup tables. I am in a barebutt gown clutching the same blanket they gave me in the ambulance. I am smeared all over with KY jelly, ultra-sound jelly, radioative enema fluid and IV drip. I haven't eaten in days, my mouth tastes like *ss, and they won't let me have even ice chips. I am in pain and feverish, but they don't want to give me meds because it might 'mask' the symptoms. They were pretty disgusted that I showed up downstairs at the ER again (well nurse Ratchett was), so they decide to start all over again.

New fresh-faced doctors come in to take my history and poke me again. The resident from General Surgery insists I have PID and takes DH outside in the hall to ask him pointed questions LOL. The Chief Surgeon shows up, an exhausted looking blonde woman, and she orders another Cat scan.

Kathleen was in charge of that. I remember she had gorgeous Bra-strap length curly hair, and I wanted to ask where she got it cut, but mine was in a pretty ratty 3-day old braid. I believe her enema was about 10 gallons, it was COLD and she let it out FAST. I swear it went up to my tonsils. I held it in for the entire half-hour. I should get a medal. :rockerdude:

Ok, NOW they can see. All agreed that my appendix was inflamed, and indeed about to burst. A few of the doctors and even nurse Ratchett apologized and said I was right all along, but of course appendicitis is among the most difficult of things to diagnose. Finally they give me morphine and something to stop nausea because by now I was heaving bile. They moved me on the operating table and shoved a paper net on my head, but they put me under before I could get the braid up in it, I don't remember finishing. I don't like that, I thought they were supposed to get you to count backward from one hundred or something... :suspect:

I wake up in the recovery room a few hours later, where I discover that the nurse gave my little bag of stuff to DH and told him to go home. That bag had the Ace comb Teacherbear gave me in it! my new sophieandlucy lipbalm! my toothbrush! my socks! my favorite gray zippered hoodie sweatshirt for when I get cold! OMG I was in this hospital barefoot, in a barebutt gown with NOTHING. I don't even have DHs cell# memorized yet, it was on a card in that little bag! :no :no :no I feel like homeless Jane Doe.

But at least I'm in a nice semi-private room by myself, in a clean gown, with a comfortable bed with all the buttons, bells and whistles and a clicker for the TV. I turn on CNN and try to get some sleep, but every hour someone else comes in to take my temp, blood pressure, more blood, more urine, check my incisions (OMG, I see they have shaved me into what looks like a tiny Brazilian wax job LOL).

Question for medical types, do you think it might be more efficient if 2 or 3 of these neccessary and important functions were performed at the same? You know, like take the temp and blood pressure at the same time? And let the patient get, oh say maybe 3 hours of sleep at a time instead of just one? Just wondering...

This morning, seven big-shot looking doctors, my "team" surround my bed and told me that my appendix had had gangrene, it was dead when they took it out. Was I sure that I was feeling ok until Tuesday night? They really wanted to keep me overnight again, but since I kept the liquid dinner, and the semi-solid breakfast down, that I could go home late this afternoon IF I could keep the solid lunch down and not spike a fever this afternoon. Well this was quite a challenge because the lunch was pretty awful, (chicken breast, topped with slice of ham and a big lug of cheese, dipped in batter and deep-fried ::shudder:: ) but I ate what I could, didn't spike a fever, and they let me go if I promised to keep taking my temperature for the next four days and to come back immediately if it gets above 99. I have to return on Wednesday anyway. They gave me scrips for Vicodan and some giant antibiotic.

I'm so glad to be home, where it is quiet and I can keep my room dark. :heart: If I shut the door, my cat won't poke me and walk all over me. I'm taking the phones off the hook in the bedroom.

If you have managed to read this far, I am sorry for the TMI. ;)

:Star: :Star: :Star:

ONE good thing did come out of all of this however. DH was supposed to be on a plane this morning (Saturday) to go to Fort Benning, Georgia for four days of like gas-mask and mine identification training before being deployed to Kuwait. Well, he's missed the plane with the blessings of his company, and now his assignment is indefinately postponed, delayed or canceled, we're not sure yet. I saw that story on the news about the Marine Major who left his wife and heart-sick infant to go deploy with his troops and told my husband that that was the stupidest thing I ever heard, that he better not leave me like that. So I have managed to delay my husband from going for a bit, hopefully all the nasty antics will be over before he has to go. If he has to go. AND he gets to keep his silky, tickly beard that I love so much for a little longer. :heart:

Hollie
March 15th, 2003, 08:24 PM
OH MY!!!!!!! Dulci, you poor thing!!!! I am so glad you're okay, but, whew....what an ordeal!!!!!! Thank goodness all is well. I'll be praying for a quick recovery!

dancingbarefoot
March 15th, 2003, 08:32 PM
Goodness, what an ordeal, Dulci!

Glad you're feeling better, though -- lucky you didn't go much longer before getting medical attention!

Now rest and get well!!!!

Stephanie
March 15th, 2003, 08:35 PM
Woman!!! OMG! Well, I'm glad they "diagnosed" you before you exploded! :rolleyes: I'd have my foot so far up... ::ahem:: never mind...

Thanks for checking in with us so soon. Man, what an ordeal. I'm sending you lots of happy, soothing, healing vibes.

gabiwags
March 15th, 2003, 10:10 PM
Dulci - first things first - I am sooooo glad your Hubby was delayed and hope he won't have to go at all.

Second - Geez woman - you are awful f#@&ing picky and whiney <sarcasm on full tilt>

Let me give a word of advice that will probably help SOMEone sometime: whenever a Dr. insists you have PID they do NOT know what else to say - it is like taking the dogs temperature during a vets visit (they are stalling, they don't know what to do; you are BOTHERING them). I have had to incidents of this neither of which was PID - I will spare you the details.

I am so glad you are home and safe...be nice to yourself, you deserve it... :love: ...g

BeeLady
March 15th, 2003, 10:50 PM
Hey Dulci..............

Wow, woman, you have had a heck of a time. I feel quite exhausted just reading about it, poor you.... (I'd give you a hug, but sense it might be juuuust a little sore right now!!).

Will keep you in my thoughts, take care of yourself and your dh - hope he is delayed. Just be well.............

Bees

snippet
March 15th, 2003, 11:08 PM
Ok everybody.... Dulci is covering up something. :mad: She wrote all that stuff up because she didn't want to meet me in SA :( Gosh Dulci, you could've just said so! :silly: :D :D :D :D :silly:

Back to reality.

I'm so glad your hubby is staying. Let's hope they don't change their mind and send him later on. I had thought and thought about you moving across the country to a new post knowing no one and THEN having your husband deploy for umpteen months! That would really suck! I'm glad he's staying.

Wow, you really did have it bad! It's amazing that you persevered and got your appendix out. People have died from burst appendix's (appendicii?) You did awesome! We know our bodies best, but then I'm sure the docs have had their share of kooks too.

Now see, if you HAD come to SA, you could have been at Wilford Hall (the AF training hospital!) and I'd come to comb your hair, and take care of you! (you're better off with Nurse Ratchett!) BUT, if you need anything.... give me a call. I can talk to ya at least!

(((HUGS )))

Melusina
March 16th, 2003, 02:39 AM
Oh. My. God. I have read this twice already. :shock: I am SO glad you are allright now - ditto Gabi on the PID, and ditto Steph on the foot. :shock: *tiny tiny tiny hugs*

QueenHarpy
March 16th, 2003, 02:52 AM
OMG... how terrible! My heart goes out to you Dulci :( That hospital owes you at least a medal for being such a model patient and putting up with all those enemas with such aplomb. I would've been puking on shoes by that point :evil: Thank goodness they finally found what was wrong!

I'm glad the silver lining to what you went through is that your husband won't be deployed. I'm sure that's a huge relief!

I hope you're feeling better soon!

Queenie

Grenwich
March 16th, 2003, 02:57 AM
((((Dulci)))) virtual only - no physical contact cuz I might hurt you.
Dear god - I laughed, I cried - Dulci -I hope you are better soons,soon,soon!

and I can't tell you how glad I am that hubby isn't on that plane :D

You take care of yourself. Sleep, rest, easy,easy, easy.
Gren

Pixna
March 16th, 2003, 03:15 AM
Holy cow, Dulci -- what an ordeal you've been through!!! Although your saga was enjoyable to read (very well written, I must say! :D ), it's horrible that it is TRUE!! My heart goes out to you -- you were so tolerant and brave and patient. I'm relieved you are okay now, and I wish for you a speedy recovery. Thank goodness your husband was able to change (or cancel) his training and travels. You need some tender loving care right now. Lots of hugs and love to you!!!!! {{{{{DULCI}}}}}

Chamomile betty
March 16th, 2003, 03:22 AM
I am glad it is over for you.

I must say I wish there where more country doctors like your around. In the area I live there a still a few left but not like when I was a little kid.
I am very impressed with how he treated you when you bring your lil' book in :)

I almost went into the nursing profession. I was sick a good bit as a child and had good and bad expeirences with hospitals. I always wanted to make up for some nasty nurse or impaitent know it all doctor.

I am also happy your hubby did not have to leave you. I would hate to see you without his support.

I will keep you in my mind as you recover.

Angel Hugs and Love

Karrinne
March 16th, 2003, 08:40 AM
As a nurse, I can tell you one thing, do not go to the hospital if you want to rest. You will not get it. :shock: Even if the nurses are organized, there are aides, dietitians, xray people, lab people who have their own routines and go about blithely interrrupting the only sleep you've had in six weeks.

AND read up on the nearby hospitals, and don't go to a teaching hospital for something as really simple as an appendectomy should have been. They should have done blood work, did an xray and took you right to surgery. And I have NEVER heard of giving an enema to someone with appendicitis, that ranks right up there with jacka** stupidity in my book.
Save the teaching hospital for major traumas and things no one can diagnose, it shouldn't have been that hard to figure out an appendix!!!!! :no

I'm glad you came through it okay and it's over and you're in your own little bed. Rest, take it easy and feel better soon!!!!!!!!!! :frog:

Madeleine
March 16th, 2003, 08:40 AM
Oh Dulci, goodness, what a story!
I'm glad they did the right thing eventually and you're home again ... I wish you all the best for a quick recovery!

LongRed
March 16th, 2003, 09:12 AM
I couldn't believe all that you were through!!!
UGH, you need some good rest and
relaxation!!!!!!

GoldLady
March 16th, 2003, 09:23 AM
DULCI!! OH MY GOD! I'm shocked! Last time we 'talked' you thought you had food poisoning!! You poor thing! <<<<major hugs!!>>>>

I'm so glad you are alive and doing well. How scary (and terrible) that must have been in the hospital, them running you all over the place while you were hurting.

I'm so glad some good has come out of it; your hubby gets to stay longer! And you have that nasty thing out of you now. Keep us up on how you are doing, girl. We're worried about you! :no

LisaJaney
March 16th, 2003, 10:26 AM
one of the funniest harrowing experiences I have ever read. You have a way of telling things that is just fabulous. The "tmi warning" in the title was what got me, you know. I am a tmi-hound. bwahahahaa.. I nearly choked when you said your breath was like arse. Having just survived a few days of butt-breath myself, I literally was right there with you on that one.

Appendicitis is the hardest thing to diagnose? Only if you've got your head up your butt. Helena, what WERE they thinking? And we've just the opposite trouble here: they think any abdominal pain must have something to do with infertility and so they get diagnosed with something "infertile-sounding", go digging around and finally unearth the appendicitis or the gallbladder troubles. Morons. HA! I don't THINK we have any Nurse Ratchett-types, though, using the super-size big-gulp enema bucket with a few cubes of ice and letting it out fast. I have only had to have ONE of those, and it's always funny how they want to do it to you when you've had the squirts for days. They did it to me when I had to have my gallbladder out, right after the twinners were born. (I haven't told anybody here this one --- get ready) The nurse comes in and says, as she looks over my chart, "I see you need an enema". I chuckled (demerol in a PCA machine is a good, good thing) and said, "Good one, Sharlyn. HA!" And she said she was serious. I said, "I've had the Hershey squirts for three days and haven't kept food down for that many days as well. There's nothing IN me to get out!" She said, "Nevertheless, the doc wants you to have one before surgery." I said, "Oh, fine. I am an enema virgin, I'll have you know." She said, "Roll up on your side".

So, I rolled. Then she gets out the bucket and the little soap-packet. (incidentally, I MUST stop here and now and tell you that in all the times I have been hospitalized, I have always forgotten my soap/shampoo and ask the nurse "what shall I use to wash my hair?" and they give me this little packet of castille soap to use. The explain that it is old-fashioned-type soap and is fine to use. Imagine my horror to see that the enema-queen is unleashing a packet of my shampoo into my bucket.....egads!) OK, so she launches the torpedo and begins letting the fluid out. She tells me "Let me know when you are full", as if I am gonna know when I am full. I am unconvinced. I say, "How will I know?" She says, "Oh, you'll know." I HATE when they do that. I never feel like I will know anything. Anyone else in the entire universe will know, but not Lisa. Well, I just lay there awhile and then I ask her, because I am getting this undeniable......body prompting..."Is it OK if I let a little fart?" To which she says, *and I quote* "Oh God, NO!" I said, "Well, then, I may be full." It's the most horrifying thing, this not knowing. She could have just clued me in and said, 'Tell me when you feel like you are gonna bust, or fart, or something like that." But NO, she had to make ME say the words. What a day~

Well, Dulci, I am so glad to hear you've survived the ordeal! Doesn't your own bed feel so much better? Maybe you can talk that good-lookin' fella with the silky beard into waking you up every half hour to take your temp and get your pulserate???? I'm glad he's still home, too!

Take care, and keep us posted as to how you're doing! Zowie, what a tale! And I'd like to see what a "she held an tonsil-high icy enema for a half-hour" medal would look like. Let me know!

Hugs (really really GENTLE ones),

bunniee
March 16th, 2003, 12:01 PM
Wow, that sounds like quite an ordeal. I'm glad you are home now, and that hubby is by your side. You've earned the title of Enema Queen, but I don't suppose anyone would want to compete with you for this. ;)

:heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:

bunniee

Teacherbear
March 16th, 2003, 02:39 PM
Oh DULCI!!!!!!

I was wondering what happened with you!!! Last I heard, your hubby was on the phone and you were afraid he was going to be told he was shipping out! When you were "gone" I was afraid he was preparing to leave, or had left!!! :(

I am SOO glad to hear he didn't get shipped out, and that he missed that whole mess!!!

I'm also really glad he was there with you for most of this!!!! and JESH!!! why can't doctors listen to what patients say about their bodies??!!!

I'm SOOOOOOO glad you persisted!! and gangreen????? OMG!!!!

I second EVERYTHING everone has said (except some of Lisa's TMI story! ;) )

I am glad you are home and at least getting some rest in your wonderfully-comfortable bed!!!

Gentle hugs to you!!!!!!! :love: :heart: :love: :heart:

terri
March 16th, 2003, 04:34 PM
So happy you were able to get this finally taken care. Will keep you in our family's prayers.

My daughter had an ovarian cyst burst about 3 years ago, so we did the whole ER thing thinking it could be a burst appendix-it is the same routine you went through but they were able to arrive at the diagnosis in about half the time you spent. I don't know who was more upset, my teenage daughter who had her first pelvic exam in the hospital ER, or the ER doc who had to give it to her!

Overall, a very unpleasant experience.

Some bright soul brought a wheelchair for us when I picked her up and started to carry her back to the examining room(all 130 lbs of her)-don't know why they didn't get one for us sooner. I guess they decided that one emergency patient was enough!

Glad your hubby's deployment is delayed.

Heidi
March 16th, 2003, 04:47 PM
What an incredible ordeal (and a great way of telling it). I wish you a speedy recovery (happily, with your husband!)

Tresses
March 16th, 2003, 06:38 PM
Oh my goodness, Dulci!! :shock: What a week you've had! I'm so sorry that you had to go through all that, but I'm very thankful that you are home and healing now. :D And hubby gets to stay home for awhile! :D Take it easy. Get all the rest you need. You'll be in my prayers for a complete recovery.

(((((Hugs)))))

Amazon
March 17th, 2003, 04:02 AM
Oh no Dulci!! Sometimes you just want to smack doctors!! :evil:

I am so very glad they got to it in time, despite their best efforts to prove you wrong. Heal quickly, rest alot and enjoy hubby being home.

Hugs, love and blessings, may all stay well with you both.

euphrasyne
March 17th, 2003, 04:55 AM
Dulci! I'm so glad that you are ok.

Karen
March 17th, 2003, 07:46 AM
dulci, i hope you feel better soon and glad you came out alive.

best wishes for a speedy recovery.

Anne
March 20th, 2003, 01:32 PM
Dulci!!!! I just saw this post! I'm so sorry, there are so many and I spend most of my time on the main board :oops:

What an ordeal and you're still checking out the long hair! ;)

Get well soon!